How to Let Go of Anger & Turn It Into Love – The Secret of Lasting Relationships | Tomer Devorah 7

What should you do when someone has done something wrong—and you are genuinely angry with them? For the entire Playlist of Tomer Devorah: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLF-aTKCqR7-o Should you keep holding onto that anger? 00:00 – Introduction to Tomer Devorah and the Ramak 01:30 – Overview of the 13 Attributes of Mercy 02:50 – Exploring the Verse: "Who is a God like You?" 03:18 – The Concept of Blood Relations and Overlooking Faults 06:41 – The Fifth Attribute: Not Holding Onto Anger Forever 08:00 – Reframing God’s Vengeance vs. Healing Through Pain 12:04 – The Doctor Analogy: Pain as a Part of Healing 15:15 – Why God Weakens His Anger to Allow for Repentance 17:41 – Study Tip: Completing the Tanakh in One Year 20:00 – Patience with Sin and the Tikkun Process 24:10 – The Relief and Joy After Yom Kippur Forgiveness 26:06 – Applying the Fifth Attribute to Human Relationships 32:11 – Understanding the Law of Helping an Enemy’s Donkey 36:18 – Halakhic Rules for Rebuking Others Privately and Gently 44:58 – Learning from Biblical Examples: Miriam and Aaron 49:00 – The Severity of Public Embarrassment 52:43 – Disciplining Children and Students with Kindness 54:43 – Hillel’s Te