Why So Many Good Singles Struggle to Find their Soulmate - Sharone Lankry

Why does finding the right person feel so difficult today? If your soulmate was already declared in Heaven before you were born, why can dating feel confusing, frustrating—and sometimes endless? This Torah class takes a deep look at dating, marriage, unrealistic expectations, social media, spiritual growth, inner beauty, prayer, and what actually matters when choosing a husband or wife. Our sages famously compare finding one’s soulmate to the splitting of the sea. But why? The class offers a simple three-point checklist when evaluating someone for marriage: Follow us: https://www.hidabroot.com https://www.tiktok.com/@hidabrootglobal https://www.youtube.com/@Hidabrootcom https://www.instagram.com/hidabroot_global https://www.facebook.com/Hidabroot.global/ https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VbCYZjl1CYoa4ulQIK2q 00:00 – Why Dating Feels So Hard Today 01:55 – How a Zivug Works According to Torah 03:31 – The Spiritual Power of the Jewish Calendar 05:56 – Nissan: A Time of Freedom 07:23 – Your Personal “Egypt” 08:14 – Why Finding a Soulmate Is Like Splitting the Sea 10:08 – Your Match Was Announced Before You Were Born 11:12 – Why Soulmates Can Drift Apart 12:38 – Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now? 13:03 – Upgrade Yourself—or Adjust Your Standards 17:13 – The 3 Things to Look for in a Spouse 20:18 – Beauty Fades—Inner Beauty Lasts 21:23 – The Man Still Searching for “Perfect” 24:41 – Why Everyone’s Dating Journey Is Different 24:48 – Is Social Media Ruining Your Dating Standards? 27:14 – Become a Magnet for Your Soulmate 28:02 – A Powerful Time for Zivugim 31:26 – This Is the Time to Be Proactive 33:20 – Trophy Wife or Trophy Life? 33:48 – He Rejected Her 5 Times—Then Married Her 35:52 – “She’s Not My Type”—Until She Smiled 38:48 – Tip #1: Pray for Your Soulmate 40:07 – Get Help From a Shadchan 42:10 – Be Open 42:25 – Special Times to Pray for a Zivug 46:49 – Final Message for Singles #JewishDating #Soulmate #Zivug #Shidduch #JewishSingles #DatingAdvice #JewishMarriage #Relationships #Torah #JewishWisdom #InnerBeauty #Shidduchim #Emunah #MarriageAdvice #FindingLove