A concert in the 9 days (we also made a BBQ!) ☆ הופעה בתשעת הימים?! רגע... גם מנגל עשינו! (9723)

IMPORTANT: Please always seek Daas Torah before making any decisions. Many parents make painful mistakes because they do not fully understand the halachah that applies to a child in crisis. Tragically, those mistakes can come at the expense of a child's emotional, mental, and spiritual well-being. ☆ That is not ratzon HaShem! Learn the difference between: • What is actually forbidden according to halachah. • What is a minhag or chumrah. • What is appropriate for your child's specific situation. Many parents assume the greatest danger is being too lenient regarding the halachos of the Three Weeks, the Nine Days, Tisha B'Av, Yom Tov and Shabbos. In reality, the greater danger is often the opposite: Keeping the normal hallachos instead of understanding RATZON HASHEM and being machmir on the halachos of saving your child. Furthermore, some children are in situations of safek pikuach nefesh—or even pikuach nefesh רח"ל—and parents still fail to do what halachah requires because they are afraid of violating ordinary halachos. That is no different than Hatzalah hesitating to save a life because they are worried about violating Shabbos or tzniyus situations. When your child's future—and sometimes even their life—is at stake, the Torah demands that we learn, understand and follow the appropriate hallachos of pikuach nefesh. Learn them. Understand them. And be machmir on them when it comes to saving your child. Questions that must be asked during the Nine Days and the week of Tisha B'Av: ☆Can you feed your KiP meat? ☆Can you eat meat together with your KiP? ☆Can you take your KiP to a movie? ☆To a ball game? ☆To a live concert? ☆Water park / Boating ☆Meals on Tisha Bav. Always ask Daas Torah together with the experienced professional who is guiding your specific situation. _May HaShem bring Moshiach and rebuild the Beis HaMikdosh so no parents need to ask these questions ever again!_ During the concert A boy told me he misses his Yarmulka - so I gave him mine - and he put it on with a huge smile. Then later on another boy told me he misses his Tzitzis - so I gave him mine - and he put it on with a huge smile. AMAZING!!!