Deep TP: Who are YOU when you are challenged?? Comments welcome.(91158)

Dear Parents in Pain, What comes out of you when you are challenged?? When a child struggles or goes off the derech - you are hyper focused on HIS OR HER challenges - but what you may not be focusing on is that you are also being tested. This deep TP concept: "Who are YOU when you are challenged" is basics for anyone going through this painful ordeal. Comments welcome.